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Choose the situation below for clear next steps and the right organizations to contact. AI-OK? is an educational site and cannot take reports or respond to individual situations.
If a child is in immediate danger, call 911. If your child is in emotional crisis, call or text 988, any time.
Someone is threatening to share an image
This is a form of online blackmail. The image may be real or AI-altered. Either way, it's a crime and it's not your child's fault (Thorn[1]).
- Stay calm and reassure. Say: “You're not in trouble. We'll handle this together.”
- Don't pay or send anything. Payments usually lead to more demands (Thorn[2]).
- Save evidence: screenshots of usernames, messages and profiles. Then block the account.
- Report to the NCMEC CyberTipline[3] or call 1-800-843-5678, and to the FBI[4].
- Get images removed with NCMEC's free Take It Down[5] tool, for images of anyone under 18.
A fake image of my child is going around school
- Believe and support your child. Deepfakes can cause serious emotional harm (APA[6]).
- Save evidence before anything is deleted.
- Report it to the app or platform and to the school.
- If the image is inappropriate, use Take It Down[5] and report to the CyberTipline[3]. Laws on AI-altered images are changing; see the AAP's overview[7].
- Check in on how your child feels over the next weeks, and contact your pediatrician if you're worried.
A call sounded like my child (or me) in trouble
- Hang up and call the person back on a number you know (FBI advice[8]).
- Ask for your family safe word.
- Never send wire transfers, gift cards, payment-app money or crypto under pressure.
- Report it to the FBI's IC3[9].
I found a worrying chatbot conversation
- Stay calm and curious, not angry. Ask what the chats mean to them.
- If your child seems at risk or in crisis, call or text 988[10] and contact your pediatrician or a counselor. Chatbots are not a substitute for real help (APA[6]).
- Watch for secrecy, withdrawal and strong emotional reactions tied to the chats (Penn State Extension[11]).
- Report harmful bot behavior to the app, and review parental controls together.
- Talk to your pediatrician. The AAP[12] has guidance for doctors counseling families on chatbot use.