Ages & Stages / Elementary
Elementary: Ages 6 to 10
AI shows up in homework tools, games and videos. Teach two habits now, and they'll stick for years: keep private things private, and check what AI says.
The 2-minute version
- Most chatbots (ChatGPT, Snapchat's My AI, Character.AI) are for ages 13+. Under 13, use kid-specific tools with a parent.
- Rule #1: never tell a chatbot your name, school, address, photo or password.
- Rule #2: AI can be wrong. Check with a grown-up or a book.
Top risks at this age
- Oversharing. Chatbots can collect sensitive details from conversations, including feelings and interests (Brookings[2]).
- Believing everything AI says. Generative AI doesn't actually “know” things; it predicts text from its training data (Brookings[3]).
- AI in games and video apps designed to hold attention as long as possible (Brookings[3]).
- Age rules being skipped. Many AI tools are 13+ (Internet Matters[4]).
What to say
“Chatbots are like a stranger online. We don't tell them our name, school or where we live.”
“AI can sound sure and still be wrong. Let's check it together.”
Do this week
- List the apps, games and devices your child uses that have AI built in.
- If your child uses Google Gemini, set it up through Google Family Link (Internet Matters[4]).
- Play “Private or OK to share?” together (5 minutes).
- Set a family rule: devices stay in shared rooms (Penn State Extension[5]).
Good ways to use AI for learning
- Tutors built to guide, not give answers. For example, Khanmigo is designed to help kids find answers themselves and lets parents see chat history (Khan Academy[6]).
- Turn notes into practice quiz questions or flash cards together (Brookings[7]).
- Curiosity questions (“why is the sky blue?”), then check the answer together.